5 years ago in Quotes
Spend enough time around a group, and youâll have a very strong feeling of what they consider acceptable. More than that, youâll actually start to behave that way. This works the same with your family, your workplace, and probably your social networks.
As I spend more time online, I become increasingly aware of what the blogosphereâs consensus would be on any one thing I do. It has become a kind of internalized panopticon that says âthis thing you are thinking can be said on Twitter, while this second thing definitely cannot.â Can you relate to that?
The strange thing is that the same could almost be said of someone who lives in a totalitarian state. Some states of mind are considered acceptable, we know which they are, and weâre careful to only express those those that wonât rock the boat.
1 decade ago in Quotes
Everyone has an internal eye. It always watching. It has been slowly constructed by society at large and by your friends and family, and it checks you for unacceptable behaviour. If you have had it around for long enough, you actually start to believe that the eye is you, and that youâre âbeing reasonableâ or some other rationalization.
But the eye isnât you at all. It is a prison, and you have justified its existence by obeying it. Itâs strong because you let it be strong.
But the secret, the part thatâs amazing, is that it canât do anything to stop you, even if it wanted to. Itâs an eye. It can only watch. The rest of you is free to act as you wish.